Ive been laying down foundation for the following year and I am determined to make 2013 a better year. I said that about 2012, but then so many things went wrong and it was the third week of Jan.
So, knowing I wanted a better year for 2013 and I wanted MY dreams to finally come true, I wrote down the things I wanted and the things I needed and how I could get them. I want a house and a backyard for my twins...I really want them to have their own. We grew up always in a 2 bedroom and then twice in a three bedroom and it was so cramped. I want a nice house for me and the twins and I want them to be able to enjoy it. That is my first and most important personal goal. I want a house before summer of 2013 and to do that, I needed to lay my foundation now to get this accomplished.
So, I got my credit checked and it was pretty bad. So bad that I almost cried at how bad it was. I've had my identity stolen, so that wasnt fun and some of the things on there werent mine, so I am in the process of disputing those. I wanted to make sure this was fair, well it wasnt going to be. I had too much on there and to clear it myself would take 4 years...yes, I calculated it, and it would be four years. To really accomplish my goal, I needed this foundation to be laid down starting now.
Ive been looking into bankruptcy and its affordable and doesnt cause too much damage. The lawyers Ive interviewed have explained the types of bankruptcy, which one would be best for me, and how to go about getting that dream home, even after bankruptcy. After I file, I cant mess with our touch my credit for 6 solid months, so that's why I need to start my foundation now. Well, I came upon another site called Skrupa Law, and I liked their site.
I love learning about my credit, and wish I had learned before all of this negativity on there. However, now I know and its something of great interest to me. Filing bankruptcy isn't the end of the world to me, its simply helping me start over and to lay a more rock solid foundation for my future and my kids. Being able to teach them accurate knowledge is more important than what someone thinks of me and my actions.
Lay your foundation now and start your 2013 with a big bang, hit the ground running, and be prepared to fall sometimes, but most importantly be prepared to get right back up, dust off, and then keep on running. Being able to put things behind you and successfully move forward, is and can be hard, but things always work out better once you do put one foot in front of the other. Check out bankruptcy education on Google, better yet check out the Skrupa Law site and see how much you learn from them. If bankrupcy is your way to go, like mine will be, dont worry about what others think and dont worry about the moment of getting the relief you've been searching for. Think of your awesome foundation for a better future you will soon have.
Happy journey to you all!!
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Saturday, July 21, 2012
A new day!!
Today is Friday! Fridays are awesome because is the end of a long work week for most and the beginning of a awesome weekend for the majority.
Today, I heard about shootings in Aurora, Co over a movie and its saddens me that people stoop this low to do things of such hate.
I wanted to chat about what this crazy week has been like. Monday, I started my new job and I love it! Its so much…awesomeness. The people there are really loving and kind and do know how to make someone feel special. I love my boss and he says I am doing an awesome job. I slacked on my work out program and I need to get back on the ball on that.
Work has been wonderful, my food intake has been good too, however, I could and can and will be doing better on that end. I have no problem adapting to my new schedule…its hard but its rewarding. My next move is going to Denver, Co and living up there. I am in the process of looking for a place and had plans to go there this Saturday, but with no car, I am just going to make calls looking for places.
The twins start “school” aka daycare on Monday and I am really excited about that. We all get a moments of rest away from each other, my mom can begin her medicines and be back on track, and the twins will be back in school learning and doing more. I think school is super nice and awesome for them. I know they love it.
I love this new start to my life. A new outlook, trying to stay and maintain a positive attitude. If I cant control it…why stress over it?! I know my limits and what I can and can’t do. I also know that just learning to be me has been a journey and I love this new outlook, it makes me love/like me even more.
I hope your week was filled with the journey of life, a new outcome, and a new joy of how you want things to be. Have a blessed and safe and fun weekend!!
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